“Promise me you’ll always remember: You’re braver than you believe, and stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.” – A. A. Milne
It’s easy to focus on our short comings, because we know them intimately. We remember every time we make a mistake or fail miserably. This make us want to stay in our comfort zone; not wanting to try something new or venture out into unknown territory. We complete the tasks we know we can accomplish at our jobs. We don’t try to find new adventures on our days off. No wonder we feel like all our days are the same!
Repetition gets laborious and boring. We can accomplish more than we admit to ourselves. We can tackle new projects at work and display our talents in new ways we haven’t even thought of before.
Remember this week that you are braver, stronger, and smarter than you think you are!
On this Martin Luther King Day, I am reminded that every small step forward is vital. It’s easy to think that what you do in one moment is not significant; but moments become days, days become weeks, weeks become years, and years quickly become a lifetime. Every decision we make is one that can propel us toward a life full of positive productivity or we can easily waste it. Sometimes it is easy to go through the motions of going to our jobs, procrastinating as much as possible and then mentally checking out as soon as we clock out.
The leaders who inspire us, like Martin Luther King, Jr., are those who find ways to make a difference. They don’t take the easy way out. They take the hard, rocky path, because they know they are moving in the right direction. They go against social norms, leaving behind a legacy of both love and success.
So, whether you’re attempting to change the morals and ideals of a nation, or you are simply trying to become a successful entrepreneur; remember that every step counts. And if you can’t take a step, then crawl. The world needs your talents and your courage. Don’t give up, because you have chosen a more difficult path. Make every moment meaningful and then you will live a life full of purpose.
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”
Every person has God-given talents. You may not be able to dance, sing, or act well, but you have your own particular set of gifts.
Society places certain expectations on everyone, such as success, beauty, a strong relationship and a sizable bank account. That can leave some of us feeling lack-luster as we may not currently possess a powerful job, model looks, a boyfriend or girlfriend (or husband/wife), or an overflowing abundance of cash. It’s easy to point out the ways we don’t measure up instead of appreciating how unique and special we are.
When we compare ourselves to others, it seems like we aren’t good enough. Some people are doctors, lawyers, and businessmen (or women). Others are photogenic, popular, or great public speakers. Some have long-time boyfriends or girlfriends, fiancés, or have already been married for years with a few kids. When we judge ourselves related to others, we sell ourselves short.
Our parents may have their own plans for us that aren’t realistic. They might want to live vicariously through us or just have dreams for us that we aren’t equipped to actualize. Mulan struggles with this when she can’t be the girl her parents expect her to be. She wants to bring honor to her family, but she is destined to be a heroine, not merely a desirable candidate for a matchmaker and future mate.
Instead of comparing ourselves to others or trying to fit into the mold created for us by society or by our parents, we should discover what talents we have hidden within us. Using these abilities will be your gift to God and your gift to the world. Don’t be a cookie-cutter version of someone else. Be yourself, because there’s only one you.