Choosing a Different Path









“Two roads diverged in a wood, and I, I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.”~ Robert Frost.


This quote can mean many things to various people. To me, it means forging your own trail. Instead of following the crowd and being marked as status quo, it means choosing the unfamiliar in order to reap the rewards of learning life lessons. Anyone can excel at something if they put hard work into it. Many, if not most, people can go to college, get some sort of job, work every week, and earn money; but can everyone invent the latest gadget? Can everyone become an entrepreneur and start their own business? Can everyone become famous from their fabulous talent, good looks, or brilliant personality? “No,” we think, so we don’t try. Some of us would rather get a degree that will most likely land us a high-paying job that will, in turn, lead us to an early retirement. Ignoring our God-given talents and the whispers of heart telling us otherwise, we might end up choosing a life of pain-staking work and count the hours until we can go home for the weekend. Is this truly living or is it merely surviving?

In ‘The Matrix’, the main character Neo is given a life-altering choice by Morpheus. Consuming the blue pill would allow him go back and live in the reality he once knew. He would be comfortable and not know that he was missing out on the truth. The red pill would allow him to escape the fabricated world of the matrix and lead him into the real world. Things would start to get messy. He would have to train and learn new skills in order to get ready for future battles. The choice was that simple: go back to his easy former life or be brave and adventurous enough to see what he’s made of.

Our society is all about taking the easy route: fast food, online shopping, DVRs and honestly, anything else we could possibly need or want can be found on our smartphones. We get angry if we have to wait at a slow traffic light. We complain if the temperature isn’t too our liking at school or work. It’s no wonder that we don’t take the time to follow our passions in life when we’re mainly focused on our own sense of safety and comfort.

Those that are brave enough to create their own path, follow their dreams no matter the cost. They know that if they don’t try, they will never come true. They define success not in what looks good to others.  Instead, they relish in the fact that they’re doing exactly what they were made for. Instead of working at a job just for a paycheck, they may end up creating a job that fits them perfectly. They work hard at becoming a better version of themselves. They may make mistakes along the way, but each one is used as a learning experience. There are two roads: one leads to mediocrity and one leads to excellence.  It’s our choice today.

4 thoughts on “Choosing a Different Path”

  1. Amazing post, Erin! I’ve always loved that Frost quote, and it ties into The Matrix in a bizarrely perfect way. Such a cool concept, though harrowing. Would be so much easier to swallow the blue pill throughout life, but at what ultimate cost? There’s so much more out there: cross-country start-overs and insane summer camps have only been the beginning for me. Thanks for the reminder to KEEP swallowing that red pill, over and over until I hit Eternity’s shore.

    1. Thank you! I really enjoyed writing it. That’s so true. God desires excellence from us which usually means we have to get out of our comfort zone to reap the rewards.

  2. Sometimes i wish it was as easy as choosing the red pill at the right moment, but, like Tom said, we have to keep choosing it, don’t we? It’s far too easy to fall into the comfort trap if we don’t. I heard another good quote the other day: “Only the dead fish follow the stream”. I hope I’m not a dead fish!

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